I Don’t Care Anymore

By |2021-08-23T18:58:17+00:00August 23rd, 2021|Categories: Care, control, FEATURED|

I am in the process of writing a book about relationships. It’s a very different book. It’s not the usual “work on your communication,” “start scheduling date nights…” type book. Instead, it’s a radical approach to redefining couples so they can stay together and be happy. One of my core messages is about a single [...]

Do You Care What People Think of You?

By |2020-03-03T13:44:33+00:00March 3rd, 2020|Categories: Acceptance, control, FEATURED, Insecurity|

For most of us, the answer to that question is yes. Even if we feel pretty confident in our lives and have reached a certain level of success, there are situations where we feel insecure. Then suddenly we care very much about what other people think of us. My Life Under a Microscope I am [...]

Detachment is Nothing Like I Thought it Was

By |2019-12-02T23:41:41+00:00December 2nd, 2019|Categories: Boundaries, control, Detachment, FEATURED|

Many years ago, when I attended Al-Anon meetings, I used to hear the phrase “detachment with love” often. I understood the concept, but when I tried to apply it in my own life, I failed miserably. I Was Not Very Good at Detachment At the time, I was involved with an alcoholic who had some [...]

You Don’t Need to Know Why

By |2019-05-21T12:05:06+00:00May 21st, 2019|Categories: Acceptance, Change, control, Faith, FEATURED, Gratitude|

Always needing to know why, is something I struggle with daily. Whether I am desperate to know what is causing pain in my body or why a potential client won’t email me back, I find myself obsessing unhealthily and getting caught up in the “why” far too often. Sometimes There is No Reason A situation [...]

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