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Detachment is Nothing Like I Thought it Was

By |2019-12-02T23:41:41+00:00December 2nd, 2019|Categories: Boundaries, control, Detachment, FEATURED|

Many years ago, when I attended Al-Anon meetings, I used to hear the phrase “detachment with love” often. I understood the concept, but when I tried to apply it in my own life, I failed miserably. I Was Not Very Good at Detachment At the time, I was involved with an alcoholic who had some [...]

You Don’t Need to Know Why

By |2019-05-21T12:05:06+00:00May 21st, 2019|Categories: Acceptance, Change, control, Faith, FEATURED, Gratitude|

Always needing to know why, is something I struggle with daily. Whether I am desperate to know what is causing pain in my body or why a potential client won’t email me back, I find myself obsessing unhealthily and getting caught up in the “why” far too often. Sometimes There is No Reason A situation [...]

Is it Okay to be Angry With God?

By |2019-04-16T18:55:00+00:00April 16th, 2019|Categories: Acceptance, Anger, control, FEATURED, Surrender|

Let’s be honest. Life can get pretty tough sometimes. You work hard; you take care of the people in your life, you try to do everything right and still sometimes it feels impossible to get ahead. Maybe you have just had a really long string of bad luck. Regardless of where the struggle comes from sometimes, [...]

Escape From Your Own Prison by Giving Up Control

By |2019-01-22T19:15:38+00:00January 22nd, 2019|Categories: Acceptance, control, FEATURED, Real Life|

I know a couple that is obsessed with a family situation that is going on around them. They cannot help but bring it up in every conversation and email. It continues to litter their thoughts and feelings, and as a result, they are imprisoned by worry, fear, and fury. What bothers me most about it [...]