If You are Reacting to Them, It’s Probably About You

By |2019-07-03T09:46:15+00:00July 3rd, 2019|Categories: Acceptance, Emotions, FEATURED, Reacting, Relationships|

A few days ago I experienced a real opportunity for growth. This opportunity, which involved reacting, came in the package of an uncomfortable exchange between a close friend and me. At the time, it felt awkward and confrontational, but later I was able to see it in a different light and learn from it. Criticism [...]

Are You Afraid to be Alone?

By |2019-04-23T16:38:21+00:00April 23rd, 2019|Categories: FEATURED, Happy, Relationships|

I have some wonderful girlfriends in my life. At least two of them are in long-term relationships, and I know they are frustrated, unfulfilled and would be happier if they were alone. Unfortunately, I think the fear of being alone holds them back. I also have a guy friend who got divorced a few years [...]

Release Blame With This Powerful Little Phrase

By |2018-05-16T00:42:10+00:00May 16th, 2018|Categories: Blame, FEATURED, Healing, Relationships, Spiritual Life|

There is this incredible story about Esther Hicks where she was leaving a seminar during a break. She entered a service elevator to avoid the crowds due to her celebrity status. A man transporting laundry stepped in with her. He began explaining that she was in the wrong place and that this elevator was not for [...]

Take Control of Big, Bad, Scary, Uncertainty

By |2018-05-01T14:55:09+00:00May 1st, 2018|Categories: Change, FEATURED, Relationships, Uncertainty|

Like many people, I used to hate uncertainty. I wanted ironclad guarantees, lifelong warranties, promises and assurances that were inescapable. I was looking for security in all the wrong places. The ironic part is that things went wrong, things broke that didn’t get fixed, and I got hurt. So regardless of any perceived security, I thought [...]