I have never been the life of the party and I don’t make friends easily nor do I do well in big crowds. I never enjoy myself at social gatherings where I don’t know anyone. But what I do have is a small set of great friends who I appreciate immensely.

No Frills, No Hassle Friendships

I have four really close girlfriends and one male friend who is my best friend. The thing I love best about my pals is that they don’t judge me nor do I judge them. If we don’t talk or text for a week, a month or even a year, it doesn’t change our closeness. If I needed one of them or they needed me, we would drop everything and run to the other’s side. There is no drama; there are no frills and no hassles. Being friends with them doesn’t stress me out and I don’t feel any uncomfortable expectations. They are my idea of perfect companions.

Drama Take Your Exit

I have had friendships in the past that needed or expected too much of me. I have heard stories of other friends who get very hurt if you don’t return their call instantly. There are others who continuously judge you, so you feel less than whenever you are around them. These are not healthy friendships, and I don’t want or need any of that in my life. I am grateful to have found the strength to end those toxic relationships and to have kept my beautiful friends. No one needs that kind of drama in their life especially as adults with our jobs and family responsibilities.

Thank You, My Good Friends

So I just wanted to take this opportunity to generously thank my wonderful friends for always being there with me through the good times and the bad. Thanks for those texts that came at just the right time. Thank you for being my shoulder to cry on or offering a hug when I needed it. I love you all dearly and appreciate each one of you.